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We love a good gift guide. Especially one created WITH the kids and seeing as we've just celebrated Ava's 4th birthday we thought it would be a great time to share all the presents she's been enjoying and playing with the most! Maybe her TOP 10 will provide a few gift...

Ava’s top 10: gift ideas for 4-year-olds

We love a good gift guide. Especially one created WITH the kids and seeing as we've just celebrated Ava's 4th birthday we thought it would be a great time to share all the presents she's been enjoying and playing with the most! Maybe her TOP 10 will provide a few gift...

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A letter to our daughter on her 1st birthday

by | Jul 15, 2018 | Baby's First Year, Just Kids, Our Story, Party Inspiration | 4 comments

Here we are, one year after the 1st moment I held you, the 1st time I heard your voice and the 1st instance I looked into your big, beautiful eyes. So many things have happened and changed over the past 12 months and although it sounds like a decent amount of time, it actually went by in a flash. Our tiny, fragile baby girl that slept for hours on end has become a bubbly, feisty toddler crawling wherever she likes, standing for a few seconds at a time, eating anything and everything and talking up a storm. You’re perfect in every way, little Ava but, we know your biggest challenges are yet to come…

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

The world we live in doesn’t preserve perfection and being sinners from the start means you’ll need to work hard at keeping your heart and intentions pure. For some this might seem like an impossible task. One not even worth worrying about. You however, can be different, you can bring about change, you can be stronger than peer pressure and societal fails. You can be part of the next generation of woman “fighting for each other, instead of with one another”.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

So, our wishes to you on your 1st birthday:

May you stay forever faith filled, trusting in God. Knowing He made you complete and that He will provide all that you need.

May kindness motivate your actions, even when you are hurt and upset or working through a difficult situation.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

May compassion fill your heart because we all have our own cross to bear. Rather be a helping hand than more extra load to carry.

May grace describe your approach to others and life. Being hard, forward and “real” might be easier but acting thoughtfully will bring about change and could impact someone’s life profoundly without you even knowing.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

May your love be endless. May it be the answer when you don’t know what else to do and may you experience it in abundance.

May the joy we all deserve stay protected in your soul, never dependant on others, worldly possessions and charm. Never let it go!

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

May you be content. Content in who you are, bettering yourself but also accepting your shortcomings. Dreaming of your destiny but never letting false desire cloud what really matters.

Be confident little girl, doubt will only drive you into the wrong direction.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

Stay passionate. Stay curious, find your life’s purpose and live to the full. We only have one lifetime on earth so make it count, letting the legacy of it all cary you into eternity.

Always be honest. Especially when you fail, when you fall and when you make mistakes (believe me those times will be in abundance). Asking for forgiveness, forgiving yourself and letting go will set you free.

It’s definitely the road less traveled, little Ava and should provide more than enough adventure for one.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

Hebrews 11:1 ESV 

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

Happy 1st birthday Ava Loïs!

Just a Mamma Letter to a one year old

PHOTO CREDIT | Anje-Ilana van Dalen from Madison and West.

Special thanks you to Oliver and Bean and Ivy Lilly Couture for creating our beautiful mommy and me, matching outfits for Ava’s 1st birthday photoshoot. These dresses were gorgeous and exquisitely  made. Thank you, thank you!

4 Comments

  1. Khadija Fakir

    Happy Birthday to the little dolly. Stunning pics and beautiful letter. ❤️

    Reply
    • Mari-Louise

      Thank you so much Khadija. Appreciate the nice comment and birthday wishes.x

      Reply
  2. Amanda Chua

    She is co cute 🙂 lots of love from my side.

    Reply
    • Mari-Louise

      Thank you Amanda. I kinda think so too… hehe

      Reply

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